Can women really just enjoy sleeping with someone with no emotional attachment? Many would say yes there are some women who are strong enough to do so. But honestly, it does get tied down to the nature of the sexes doesn’t it?
Men are capable of having multiple partners to just enjoy the physical act with no emotional attachment whatsoever. But why is it if women take that road, they are considered trashy? That question has always had me intrigued. Just like men, we want physical attention but along with that physical what do we really want? We want to be made to feel beautiful. Do men score at the end of the night so that a woman can make them feel beautiful and attractive? Or do they simply want to score because of their basic need of just wanting to have sex and nothing more.
After a one-night stand a woman would often find herself asking questions like “is he going to call me?”, “was I up to his standards?”etc. But what do men think after? If there was no alterior motive to bringing a girl home, don’t they usually just go to sleep and block off any sentiment shared with a partner?
Men can have multiple partners and can innocently find nothing wrong with that as they are "living every single man's life". However, when we wind up with a boyfriend who has had x number of partners he has slept with we think of it as something so sinful. Is that because for us women sex is always more than just an act and we are always on a quest... for something more?
The fact is, women are always on the hunt for wanting more. No matter how many times we tell ourselves when we are single that we are doing it in the name of fun and there is no attachment, I don’t think our minds are tuned to cut out all emotional attachments no matter how hard we try. There would be no game, no fun, no mystery if both the sexes were emotionally disconnected when it came to the art of sex in the mating game now would there?
- By Simran Sagar
- By Simran Sagar
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